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A Rose By Any Other Name
I’ve written this article for those who would like to bring a little more love in their lives. If you are at a place where you want to find someone of like mind and heart to spend a little bit of time with, this article is for you.
Love and the Law of Attraction
Before I met my husband I had a list of criteria I wanted in a romantic partner. I wasn’t even interested in dating someone that didn’t meet these requirements. When dating a new person I always had what I was looking for in mind, and if I didn’t see enough matches early on I moved on to someone else. Although I never realized it, I was using the law of attraction to find what I wanted.
I had dated enough to have a list of areas that I was really clear on…and I was a complete and total match for getting it partially because I would accept nothing less and partially because my beliefs were congruent with what I wanted.
The Love List
To begin getting clear on what you want in a romantic partner, compile a list of attributes that are a “must have” for you, in that special someone. Write down everything that comes to mind and then go into detail as to why specifically it matters, what your person having that will get for you and what makes it a must have. When you’ve finished your list, the next step is to find out if you are a vibrational match for what you want.
The Vibration Revelation
Many of us think we know how we feel about love, what we want and how to get it, however I am guessing that most of know less than we think. A love relationship is an old subject even for the very young among us as it is one of the very first relationships that we experience.
As a child growing up we form ideas about love, what it means, what it will get for us and how to get it by watching the interaction of those around us…the conclusions we come to become deeply embedded within us, operating below the level of our conscious thought.
Are you curious about the beliefs you have lurking under the surface within your deeper mind? Are you wondering what is driving your patterns, attracting you to the same type of man/woman and influencing the kinds of relationships you bring into your life?
If so, answering the following questions will reveal how you really think about love and provide a window into how congruent your thoughts are in this most important area of life.
Comparing the outcomes of these questions with the attributes you’re looking for in a partner with give you a good idea if you are a vibrational match for what it is that you want.
So what if you’re not a match for what you want? I’ll cover that in part two of Manifesting the Love of Your Life.
Uncovering How You Think About Love
What were the positive and negative events that shaped your relationships with men/women?
What was your parents relationship with each other (your observations)?
Finish the sentence. I think my dads/moms beliefs about love were?
The effects of their beliefs on you was?
Finish the sentence. I am/am not in the exact love situation I’d like to be in because?
What you need to do to have the relationship you want is?
What stops you from having the relationship you want?
Fill in the Blank
People in love are _________
Love makes people_________
I’d have love if_____________
My dad thought love was__________
My mom always thought love would__________
In my family love caused_______________
Love equals_______________
If I had love I’d_____________
If I could have love it would___________
Love is not___________
I’m afraid if I had love I would____________
Love is________________
Love causes______________
In order to be loved I need to______________
When I’m in love I usually_______________
If I could love freely I’d_____________
People think love__________________
When someone is single it tells me that_________________
People are single because________________
People become loved by_______________
Single people are____________________
Married people are__________________
When I was a kid I knew which kid’s parents were married and which were divorced. I was the kid of __________ parents and this had the following affects on my thoughts about relationships_________________.
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