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This is the continuation of an article I wrote on Valentine’s Day called Manifesting the Love of Your Life, in which I outlined the process of creating your love list and invited you to take my beliefs about love [...]
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Manifesting the Love of Your Life, Part 2
Aligning with Values on the Environmental Level
As a coach, I spend a lot of time working with the value systems of my clients. In fact, it is one of the areas that I will first search for incongruencies that leak and dilute their personal power and prevent them from showing up fully in their lives.
Many clients have ideas about what [...]
Manifesting the Love of Your Life
A Rose By Any Other Name
I’ve written this article for those who would like to bring a little more love in their lives. If you are at a place where you want to find someone of like mind and heart to spend a little bit of time with, this article is for you.
Love and [...]
I’m Not Lost…I’m Exploring
The power of…
In this article I’d like to explore a very powerful technique for stimulating motion when we find ourselves stuck within our patterns and some of the most common patterns I encounter as a spiritual explorer and coach. I think by the end of the article you will agree that a little re-framing…really [...]
Getting into the Real You
Are you in your own way?
Whether you’re developing spiritually, psychically or pursuing some other kind of self improvement you will of course encounter yourself…and your success will hinge on whether or not you can let the totality act through you and get out of your own way. If you have a strong ego the [...]
Celebrating Others
As we approach the summer months in which there are so many parties and birthdays I thought it appropriate to write a post about celebrating others. How do you celebrate the people in your life? Do you throw parties, buy gifts or do you put a lot of energy toward creating things they [...]
Spiritual Teachers: Accepting when it’s time to move on
Spiritual Bonding
The bond that develops with a spiritual teacher is a strong one. These light-holders of the universe mirror to us the light of our own consciousness, take us by the hand and show us the way through the thick overgrown forests of our egos and lead us toward feeling the spirit, that has [...]
A Seven’s Guide to Unresponsiveness
The Situation
So you are trying to connect with someone who is hard to get a hold of…you’ve emailed and called…left funny or challenging messages and used all the charm of your personality to no avail. If you’re a seven on the enneagram, this is personal; nothing drives a seven more nuts than unresponsiveness…it is [...]
Openess Determines Perspective
Starting the Day
Sebastian, my six year old son stops suddenly while putting on his shoes and says, “Maybe Mrs. Visaya (his first grade teacher) wants to be famous.” I pause a moment while tying his shoes to say, “What makes you think that?” He responds confidently, “She put blue ribbons on everyone’s folders!” [...]
Energy Flows…Watch Where it Goes
Always Tired
In the not-so-long ago past I was working with a Southern Gospel group who also happened to be good friends of mine. They felt God was calling them to go into full-time ministry and wanted to make a change in their lives…so they hired me. One of the lead singers used to [...]







